tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32677388.post6450056515142926269..comments2023-05-07T03:27:19.484-07:00Comments on Being Me: Before BloglandBeing Mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18191598836451286017noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32677388.post-35464622324398724542007-03-13T21:45:00.000-07:002007-03-13T21:45:00.000-07:00Wow. Here from Kim. Nina and I have similar expe...Wow. Here from Kim. <BR/><BR/>Nina and I have similar experiences with our mothers apparently. I am constantly looking for answers as to why my mother is unable to talk about adoption with me. Anything to do with it. God forbid, her FEELINGS about the whole thing. I ache with feelings about the whole thing.<BR/><BR/>And she's the one person in this entire world who has a share in those feelings. I want to know hers, and I want her to know mine.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for giving me a potential glimpse into her world.Andie D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05853859265687206607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32677388.post-500955083536803952007-02-27T19:37:00.000-08:002007-02-27T19:37:00.000-08:00Being Me, You give me a little hope that my mother...Being Me, <BR/><BR/>You give me a little hope that my mother will also get in touch with her pain because she is very cut off from her feelings...at least around me. I'm trying to process the fact that she showed absolutely no emotion. When I read your post, it occurred that she may be so numbed out or terrified. But she's 83 so I'm not sure if it's possible for her to reconnect with her sorrow. But you've helped me in trying to see the other side, from her point of view. Thank you.Ninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077857199651890460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32677388.post-31964460664210915352007-02-15T10:21:00.000-08:002007-02-15T10:21:00.000-08:00wow. yeah. huh. i get so much of this yet my exper...wow. yeah. huh. i get so much of this yet my experience was so many years later. <BR/>hugs.suzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00192108446381808647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32677388.post-68115662760071949572007-02-14T14:27:00.000-08:002007-02-14T14:27:00.000-08:00I love it that you're here J, together with Joy.It...I love it that you're here J, together with Joy.<BR/>It must be so very hard to have your lives aired out in public - but I know it helps me to understand the crap that rolls around in my head!<BR/>No one gave out books on how to deal with the aftermath of the disaster known as 'adoption' - but having you here really does help me cope a little better every day.<BR/>Sending you big hugs, C. xxxPossumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01868324445518687576noreply@blogger.com